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Grief, bereavement - Introduction

Counsellors and therapists in New Zealand who can support you when you suffer from grief, loss, bereavement.

 

Grief is the time we spend adjusting to loss. There is no standard time limit and there is no right or wrong way to feel during the bereavement period.

 

Grief, although normal, can manifest in a huge range of ways. Some people get angry, some people withdraw further into themselves and some people become completely numb. Sometimes, grief can turn into something more serious - like depression.

 

   

The five stages of grief and loss

The 5 stages of grief and loss are:

1. Denial and isolation;
2. Protest or Anger;
3. Bargaining and fighting;
4. Depression;
5. Acceptance.

In our bereavement, we spend different lengths of time working through each step and express each stage with different levels of intensity. The five stages of loss do not necessarily occur in any specific order. We often move between stages before achieving a more peaceful acceptance

 

 

Grief counselling & therapy

Are you dealing with grief, loss, bereavement and mourning and would you like to get some help how to cope with this? Therapy and counselling can help.

 

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Auckland
B/11 Enterprise Street The Enterprise Suite - Birkenhead
0626 Auckland
Online also
As a parent, teacher and student of Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy, I bring a warm, attachment-centred approach to healing. With decades of experience in yoga therapy, contemplative movement, and mindfulness, I support people struggling with trauma, anxiety, depression, and addiction through body-based, experiential therapy. Drawing from Internal Family Systems and trauma-informed practices, I create a safe space where you can reconnect with your body's innate wisdom and return home to your authentic self.
  • Grief & loss
Christchurch
Christchurch
Online also
Are you feeling distressed, anxious, overwhelmed or lost? I support adults to ease emotional suffering and navigate life’s challenges with greater clarity and steadiness. Drawing on Counselling, Psychology and NLP, I help with anxiety, burnout, grief, trauma and low mood. My approach is warm, respectful and non-judgmental, welcoming cultural, spiritual, gender, sexual and neurodiverse identities.
  • Grief & loss •
  • anxiety •
  • grief and loss •
  • trauma
Auckland
Suite 2 Hinemoa House Birkenhead
0626 Auckland
Online also
Over the years, I have worked with many individuals and couples facing a wide range of concerns, including anxiety, depression, relationship issues, self-esteem struggles, life transitions, and stress management. I also have training in relationship counselling, trauma and grief.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Cognitive behavioral therapy •
  • Solution-Focused Therapy •
  • Anxiety
Auckland
Auckland
Online also
Hi there, I’m Deanna and I have a real passion for helping people through the many challenges we face as humans in a way that best works for each individual. I work with adults, teens, children and their parents, supporting clients through meaningful change towards living a more satisfying and happier life.
  • Grief & loss
Victor - Counsellor

Victor | Counsellor

  • Provisional member NZAC
Auckland
205 Parnell Road - Parnell
1052 Auckland
Online also
Review: “I highly recommend booking a session with him”
I am a counsellor who values and respects each person's unique experiences and perspectives. My approach focuses on creating a safe, empathetic space where clients can freely explore their thoughts and emotions, fostering growth, healing, and meaningful change.
  • Grief & loss
Nelson
New Zealand
Online only
Review: “I would recommend Rhonda”
Hi, I'm Rhonda. I offer 3 very specialist services: 1) Somatic Trauma Informed Coach - Brainspotting 2) Narcissistic Abuse Specialist – Trauma Recovery Coach 3) Mental Health & Wellbeing Coach
  • Grief & loss •
  • Narcissistic Abuse •
  • Trauma Recovery •
  • Toxic Religion
Cynthia - Counsellor

Cynthia | Counsellor

  • Provisional member NZAC
Auckland
Avondale
1026 Auckland
Online also
Couples counselling for when you feel stuck, disconnected, or not quite yourselves
  • Grief & loss •
  • Couples & Relationships •
  • Anxiety & Depression •
  • Abuse and Trauma
Sharon - Counsellor

Sharon | Counsellor

  • Provisional member NZAC
Christchurch
22 Gracefield Avenue
8013 Christchurch
Online also
I provide a calm and compassionate space where you can pause, reflect, and feel genuinely supported. Together, we can explore challenges such as anxiety, stress, low mood, past trauma, or questions around cultural identity and belonging. Through our work together, my aim is to help deepen your understanding of yourself and support your journey toward healing and meaningful personal growth.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Anxiety •
  • Depression and Low Mood •
  • Loss and Grief
Wellington
Wellington
Online also
My work has given me the privilege of working with a wide range of people with differing backgrounds and circumstances with whatever brings them to therapy: low mood, anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, repeating patterns, grief, and addictions. Sometimes people don’t know what brings them to therapy. They might not feel right, and have a need for clarity – therapy is often a great place for addressing this.
  • Grief & loss
Oakura, New Pymouth
Tasman Parade 1
4314 Oakura, New Pymouth
Online also
I'm here to support children, young people, adults & families to work towards a more fulfilled life, for any of the issues that you face. I am non judgemental & caring. I will work with you to get the best results. Let's do this! "It is clear that Ngairini cares deeply for her clients. She provides a safe & warm environment, that allows for them to face into, & work through, life's challenges & difficulties. I would recommend her for anyone wanting to start the healing journey "- Mr.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Anxiety •
  • Burnout •
  • Depression
Auckland
500 South Titirangi Road
0604 Auckland
Online also
I am a registered counsellor (NZAC) who creates a safe, confidential space where clients can explore their emotions, uncover inner strength, and navigate life with courage and self-awareness. Calm, patient, and grounded, I take a person-centred, collaborative approach, supporting individuals, couples, and whānau both in person and online. Originally from Kiel, Germany, I have lived in Spain and New Zealand, experiences that have deepened my understanding of identity, belonging, and human connection. I am a mother of three,
  • Grief & loss •
  • trauma •
  • grief, loss, life transition •
  • identity
Wellington
26 Brandon Street - Level 2
6011 Wellington
Online also
My experience includes working with couples and relationships, anxiety, trauma, low mood and depression. I also work extensively with older clients (over 60s) and those who have experienced negative father issues.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Couples and relationships •
  • Anxiety •
  • Trauma
Robyn - Counsellor

Robyn | Counsellor

  • Provisional member NZAC
Christchurch
52 Bassett Street Office 3 - Burwood
8083 Christchurch
Online also
Are you stuck in cycles of overthinking, people-pleasing, or self-doubt, and unsure how to change them? You may be feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or navigating relationship challenges, grief, or loss—perhaps even questioning if you have a narcissistic dynamic in your life. I offer a calm, supportive space where you can feel heard and safe. Together, we’ll explore what’s happening, help you regulate emotions, understand your needs, and reconnect with yourself—so you can move forward with greater clarity, confidence, and trust.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Anxiety •
  • Grief and loss •
  • Low self-confidence
Christchurch
27A Torrens Road Hillmorton
8024 Christchurch
Online also
My name is Cate, and I work as a counsellor here in Christchurch. I offer Individual counselling for all life issues such as grief, anxiety and depression, trauma, support for living with chronic health issues, relationship issues and all the things that make life challenging at times. I am an ally for those identifying as LGBTQAI. l I work both face to face and online (within New Zealand). I am also an ACC Counsellor
  • Grief & loss
Te Awamutu
3800 Te Awamutu
Online also
Welcome. If you are reading this, chances are life is presenting challenges for you and you're seeking support to find a way through. Whether in-person or online, I provide a safe and nurturing space where we can explore your concerns with gentle curiosity.
  • Grief & loss •
  • somatic therapy •
  • eotherapy •
  • anxiety
Auckland
Pilkington Road, Panmure
1071 Auckland
With warmth, empathy, non judgement and a gentle presence, I offer face-to-face counselling for adults and young people, I create a safe, compassionate space where you can simply be yourself. My person-centred, collaborative approach draws on a range of modalities to support you through life’s challenges and towards meaningful personal growth.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Anxiety •
  • Depression •
  • Grief and loss
Melissa - Counsellor

Melissa | Counsellor

  • Provisional member NZAC
Christchurch
58 Bassett Street Room 2, off carpark
8083 Christchurch
My counselling work with women is gentle, reflective, and centres on what matters most to you. Through careful listening and shared exploration (I'm naturally very curious!), I support you in making sense of your experiences, reconnecting with your values, and finding ways forward that feel authentic and manageable.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Grief •
  • Incarceration •
  • Anxiety
Christchurch
Heathcote Valley
Christchurch
Review: “I’ve gained so much from working with her”
Hi, I am Joanna, a psychotherapist in Heathcote, Christchurch. I provide a holistic approach to psychotherapy that integrates psychodynamic and somatic approaches. My goal is to create a safe and nurturing space where you can feel safe, heard and supported throughout your journey towards achieving mental, emotional, and physical well-being. Visit my profile to learn more or contact me if you have questions.
  • Grief & loss •
  • complex trauma •
  • body mind integration •
  • brainspotting
Masterton
5810 Masterton
Online also
I see therapy as a journey of discovery and healing. Whether it’s working through trauma, grief, or building understanding around neurodiversity or family dynamics, I provide a calm, compassionate space where people can unpack what’s been weighing on them. My role is to walk alongside my clients helping them build insight, develop emotional tools, and rediscover hope.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Trauma •
  • Neurodiversity •
  • Behavioural
Waiuku
473 Whiriwhiri Road Otaua
2123 Waiuku
Online also
Somatic Integrative Sessions, Hakomi Mindful Somatic Psychotherapy (as a 3rd year student of Hakomi). Life path direction coaching sessions.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Somatic integration •
  • Music - vagas nerve release •
  • Cleansing coach
Queenstown
1092 Frankton Road Whakatipu Wellness, Aurum House
Queenstown
Online also
Kia ora, I'm Kathryn. I'm an experienced therapist, based in Queenstown, offering online and in-person counselling for teens and adults struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma and life transitions. I work in both private practice and as a high school counsellor - I love both of these roles. ​
  • Grief & loss •
  • Anxiety •
  • Alcohol and drug issues •
  • Grief
Eric - Counsellor

Eric | Counsellor

  • Provisional member NZCCA
Rangiora
156 Ashley Street
7400 Rangiora
Online also
I am a counsellor offering a calm, grounded space where you can slow down, reflect, and feel understood. I work with anxiety, stress, relationship challenges, depression and life transitions. My approach is thoughtful and collaborative, helping you make sense of patterns, reconnect with your strengths, and move forward with greater clarity and confidence.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Trauma and PTSD •
  • Depression and low-mood •
  • Couple and relational conflict
Auckland
New Zealand
Online only
Review: “Phil is a dedicated Counsellor”
Feeling stuck or overwhelmed and unsure of how to move forward? I'm an experienced Counsellor offering a calm, supportive space where we can explore what's happening for you and work towards practical, lasting change. I work with individuals and couples online and in East Auckland.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Depression •
  • Anxiety •
  • Relationships
Raglan
57 Upper Wainui Rd
3297 Raglan
Online also
Stop managing symptoms and start clearing the root cause. I specialise in Clinical Hypnotherapy & Psychotherapy to help you break free from Anxiety, Trauma, and Depression—without years of talk therapy. Raglan & Online."
  • Grief & loss •
  • Hypnotherapy •
  • Anxiety & Panic Attacks •
  • Trauma & PTSD
Waihi
Waihi
Online also
Hi I'm David. I am a counselor and trauma-informed therapist. I am currently offering online sessions. House calls (Hauraki region), and I also have a space in Waihi that is available on request. I offer a range of techniques and approaches to support individuals with a variety of presenting issues, some of which are listed below.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Parts Work (Informed by IFS) •
  • Anxiety •
  • developmental Trauma
Lottie - Counsellor

Lottie | Counsellor

  • Provisional member NZAC
Waihi
2 School Lane
Waihi
Online also
I welcome clients who are feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unsettled, often during a time of change in their life. This might include becoming a parent, grief, getting older, or other major life transitions. People who are looking for a safe and supportive space where they can talk openly, feel listened to, and make sense of what they are going through. Our goals may include feeling more confident, regaining a sense of control, and identify a preferred understanding of your experiences.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Adults •
  • Anxiety •
  • Grief
Jane - Counsellor

Jane | Counsellor

  • DAPAANZ
  • NZAPP
  • Student member NZAC
Blenheim
8 Beaver Road
7201 Blenheim
Kia Ora, hello and welcome. I aim to provide a warm, authentic, person- centred, non- judgemental, confidential, welcoming space where you can freely share about whatever is happening for you in your life.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Addicton •
  • Violence •
  • Anxiety
Jane - Counsellor

Jane | Counsellor

  • DAPAANZ
  • Student member NZAC
  • NZAPP
Picton
Picton
Kia Ora, hello and welcome. I aim to provide a warm, authentic, person- centred, non- judgemental, confidential, welcoming space where you can freely share about whatever is happening for you in your life.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Addicton •
  • Violence •
  • Anxiety
Lottie - Counsellor

Lottie | Counsellor

  • Provisional member NZAC
Paeroa
Paeroa
Online also
I welcome clients who are feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or unsettled, often during a time of change in their life. This might include becoming a parent, grief, getting older, or other major life transitions. People who are looking for a safe and supportive space where they can talk openly, feel listened to, and make sense of what they are going through. Our goals may include feeling more confident, regaining a sense of control, and identify a preferred understanding of your experiences.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Adults •
  • Anxiety •
  • Grief
Richmond
8 Croisilles Place
7020 Richmond
Online also
Review: “Thank you!”
My name is Rhonda. I offer 3 very specialist services: 1) Somatic Trauma Informed Coach - Brainspotting, 2) Narcissistic Abuse Specialist – Trauma Recovery Coach, 3) Mental Wellbeing Coach
  • Grief & loss
Porirua
84A Flightys Road - Judgeford, Pauatahanui
5381 Porirua
Kia Ora. My name is Jane and I practice Equine facilitated therapy from my property at Judgeford Pauatahanui. I have been working as a counsellor for nearly 10 years and offering Equine facilitated therapy for 9 years. I am a member of the ANZASW and SWRB. Registered with ACC but not taking any ACC clients currently.
  • Grief & loss
Rotorua
1144 Pukaki Street, Pukaki Centre - ground floor, left hand side after you enter self-opening doors
3010 Rotorua
Online also
Review: “I am truly thankful for Deb's help in transforming my life”
Debbie (Debs) I am a trained Master NLP Practitioner in my private practice for Personal Transformation Therapy & Counselling. I have trained as a Counsellor with Te Pu Wananga o Anamata and currently MNZAC I have a passion to provide opportunities for people to develop personally and professionally to create their best life. Navigating through challenges and celebrating their successes. Are you curious to what your potential may be I look forward to hearing your dreams and aspirations and realising them.
  • Grief & loss
Te Awamutu
15 Albert Drive
3800 Te Awamutu
Online also
Kia Ora. I am a Registered Nurse with 29 years experience in MH Services, currently working as a Clinical Nurse Specialist. I am trained in Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT) which I have specialised in for the last 15 years. I have lived in the Te Awamutu area for most of my life and look forward to providing therapy services for Te Awamutu and surrounding districts (Otorohanga, Te Kuiti, Cambridge).
  • Grief & loss •
  • Borderline Personality •
  • Suicidal thoughts •
  • Depression
Hamilton
Silverdale
3216 Hamilton
Online also
I am an integrative therapist with 12 years of working experience with adults, children, families, adolescents, ethnic groups, pregnant women (antenatal and postnatal). I offer counselling in English, Tamil and Hindi.
  • Grief & loss
Dunedin
3 Stafford Street Suite 7
9016 Dunedin
Online also
In my counselling work, I prioritise you as the expert in your own life and learn about your current position in what you’re experiencing. In time, we can work together to build pathways toward a life that is empowering to you, your family, and your community. Using methods such as externalising problems, re-authoring your stories, and linking with your community are some of the ways we can do this together
  • Grief & loss
Tauranga
1 Village Way Welcome Bay
3112 Tauranga
Online also
Kia ora! My name is Carien (kind of pronounced as "Kha-rene"). I offer a compassionate, holistic approach combining 30 years of experience in psychology, education, guidance and counselling. I use an integrative scientific approach to find a unique and individual pathway for each client.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Somatic Experiencing •
  • Psychological therapy •
  • Anxiety
Katikati
Clive Road (between Tauranga and Waihi)
3129 Katikati
Online also
I am a holistic counsellor/therapist with over 24 years experience. I take time to find out what is really going on for you and support you to find your way forward. We all deserve to live happier lives, free of pain and trauma.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Cancer counselling •
  • Death and passing •
  • Grief, loss and separation
Auckland
182 Great South Road - Papakura
2110 Auckland
Online also
Are you finding it hard to manage big emotions? Have recent changes to your life made things really stressful and you need a space to chat? Kia ora - I'm Tiera and I am working face to face with individual clients in Papakura. I am a skilled, caring, and committed Member of NZ Association of Counsellors. Send me a message so we can work together on helpful next steps. Congratulations on taking the first important step to receiving help - reaching out for support. Let's chat.
  • Grief & loss •
  • LGBTTQIA+ •
  • Low mood, depression •
  • Life transitions
Auckland
1 Gibraltar Crescent - Parnell
1052 Auckland
Online also
Kia ora, I’m Tiera (she/her), a registered counsellor based in Tāmaki Makaurau Auckland. I work with individual adults and adolescents. I’m passionate about inclusivity - I’m a safe and affirming counsellor for LGBTTQIA+ individuals and have experience supporting neurodivergent clients. I also provide wellbeing workshops and trauma-informed training for schools and workplaces.
  • Grief & loss •
  • LGBTTQIA+ •
  • Life transitions •
  • Relationship and friendships
Paihia
1 Williams Road Suite 3
0200 Paihia
Online also
I offer tailored counseling services for individuals, couples, and groups.  My dedicated practice is committed to providing accessible and affordable solutions to help you overcome life's obstacles.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Relationship •
  • Stress •
  • Communication
Mapua
Nelson, Tasman
Mapua
Online also
Hi, I'm Crysal. Whatever is happening in your life right now – physically, mentally, emotionally, relationally – I offer a safe, confidential, and welcoming space where you will be able express freely your experiences.
  • Grief & loss
Auckland
415 Dominion Road - Mount Eden
1024 Auckland
Online also
I am a member of NZAC and focus on offering skills for regulating emotions and working towards healing/thriving. I have been instrumental in the mindfulness modalities for therapy and emotional regulation across Australasia since the mid 2000s. Improving relationship (even that which you have with yourself) is the path to thriving. My motto is: the past informed the present, but the NOW creates the future. There is no time like now to step up and grow your relationship wellbeing.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Neuro differences in couples •
  • Attachment styles •
  • Burnout
Masha - Counsellor

Masha | Counsellor

  • Provisional member NZAC
Paihia
R4/88 Marsden Road
0200 Paihia
Online also
You're welcome for individual and couples counselling. I am committed to providing a safe and understanding environment where you can explore your thoughts and feelings. Let’s work together towards your well-being.
  • Grief & loss
Kumeu
Riverhead - Auckland
0892 Kumeu
Online also
Hi, I am Sandi - a dedicated counsellor offering therapy with 14 years of experience in supporting individuals through some of life’s most challenging moments - whether it’s overcoming trauma, navigating grief, managing anxiety, significant life changes, mental health challenges, women’s health, personal growth or finding hope in the face of addiction.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Somatic therapy •
  • Trauma therapy •
  • Addictions
Mangawhai
Mangawhai
Online also
A key ingredient of my coaching style is that YOU are the focus of our time together. It's YOUR life after all and YOU are the one that will be making any changes in YOUR life. Our sessions together are open, safe and confidential. At the end of the day, your honesty with yourself is a vital part of your growth, and I will do all I can to facilitate that in our time together.
  • Grief & loss
Motueka
Motueka
Online also
I am a registered counsellor and supervisor, with over 20 years experience. I currently provide these services via online platforms, or in the wider Motueka area by arrangement.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Anxiety •
  • Depression •
  • Grief
Auckland
0932 Auckland
Online also
Michelle - Advanced Clinical Hypnotherapist, Neuro Change Practitioner, and Women's Empowerment and Couples Coach. Specialising in the treatment of family and relationship trauma, I utilise advanced clinical hypnotherapy and neuro change methodologies to delve into the root causes of emotional distress to release and rewire your thinking.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Relationship issues •
  • Life and Mindset Coaching •
  • Trauma Release
Whanganui
Whanganui
Online also
Review: “An amazing therapist”
Kia ora koutou! Julie is my name. I aim to be a guide, to support you in the navigation of challenging life issues, towards resolution, comfort and peace. I am available to support clients with issues including (not limited to): anxiety, depression, PTSD, identity exploration, self-esteem, direction and body image.
  • Grief & loss
New Zealand
New Zealand
Online only
Review: “Speaking with Emma each session allows me someone to vent to without any judgement”
People working with me bring a wide range of concerns including (but not limited to); life transitions, trauma, anxiety, depression, sexual abuse, dissociative identity disorder, domestic violence, existential crises, grief, chronic health issues, injury etc. I work with older teenagers online but not those under 15 years of age.
  • Grief & loss •
  • Dissociative Identity Disorder •
  • Relationship counselling •
  • Depression
Auckland
Ellerslie cafe and online counselling
Auckland
Online also
Hi, my name is David. I'm a counsellor and coach based in Auckland. I often meet with people at a cafe to offer counselling and coaching in a relaxed and informal setting. For those who would prefer a more private meeting I am available online.
  • Grief & loss


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