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    Miscommunication often stems from assumptions or misinterpretations, which can quickly derail conversations. A helpful technique to prevent this is to clarify and reflect back what you’ve heard. For instance, you might say, “What I hear you saying is…” or “Just to make sure I understand…” This not only ensures that you’ve accurately received the other person’s message but also reassures them that you are actively listening and care about their perspective. It’s a powerful way to prevent confusion and demonstrate empathy.

    Additionally, reflecting back can create an opportunity for the other person to elaborate or correct any misunderstandings before they cause frustration. It also fosters a deeper level of connection because the other person feels genuinely heard and understood. This technique helps build trust, minimizes miscommunication, and leads to more effective, solution-focused conversations.
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